Update on my situation.

I'm definitely coming home to the UK. I have just resigned, I have to
work my notice. My wife does not want to go to a support group.
However this is not permanent. This is a trial separation. Go to the
UK for at least 6 months to a year. Find out where my heart lies.

On a mental note. I feel strangely liberated.

Also me and my wife are still in love. I just need some cave time by
the looks of it to sort my head out. Work out where I should be. Do I
want and can I care for a family. It's been a very emotional decision
to make for both me and her.

"ChrisC" <chrispche@googlemail.com> wrote in message
news:d7a765ae-f623-4053-8cff-a28b41e5edfa@w7g2000hsa.googlegroups.com...
> I'm definitely coming home to the UK. I have just resigned, I have to
> work my notice. My wife does not want to go to a support group.
> However this is not permanent. This is a trial separation. Go to the
> UK for at least 6 months to a year. Find out where my heart lies.
>
> On a mental note. I feel strangely liberated.
>
> Also me and my wife are still in love. I just need some cave time by
> the looks of it to sort my head out. Work out where I should be. Do I
> want and can I care for a family. It's been a very emotional decision
> to make for both me and her.

Good luck Chris.

It's a decision only you can make. It's a pity your wife didn't want to go
to the support group as it was worth a try. Does the UK offer better health
facilities than where you are currently living? If so, sounds like the place
to go to sort yourself out. Maybe your wife and children can come and visit
you in the UK.


Vanessa