What do you do about Laurie?

On Fri, 19 Jan 2007 18:07:22 -0600, Gigglz <frekklz@hotmail.com> wrote:

>What do you do when a friend you love gets angry when you won't tell
>them merely what they WANT to hear; and each time you are honest and
>you tell them the truth...or try to explain reality...they bite your
>head off? Especially when it is someone you've put your own problems
>aside for on many occasions...and someone you've gone to GREAT lengths
>for to help, understand, and be there for. Do you just walk away from
>the relationship and throw your arms up in the air?

Tell Laurie to pound sand.
She doesn't give a ratz ass about you, she only cares about what you can do
for her.
You are just the latest of a long line of suckers. You however are the
dumbest of them all. She knows that.

On Sat, 20 Jan 2007 12:02:00 -0600, Gigglz <frekklz@hotmail.com> wrote:

>On Fri, 19 Jan 2007 23:33:00 -0600, margrove2@optonline.net wrote:
>
>>On Fri, 19 Jan 2007 18:07:22 -0600, Gigglz <frekklz@hotmail.com>
>>wrote:
>>
>>>What do you do when a friend you love gets angry when you won't tell
>>>them merely what they WANT to hear; and each time you are honest and
>>>you tell them the truth...or try to explain reality...they bite your
>>>head off?
>>
>>
>>so you are headless?
>
>
>yes, and it is really strange :-) I cannot see a thing!

Did you try looking up your ass. I suspect that's where you will find it.

ASA-P OWNER wrote:
> Tell Laurie to pound sand.

who said anything about Laurie?

you made that up.

right?

or did i miss sumthin'.

~t

ASA-P OWNER wrote:
> On Sat, 20 Jan 2007 12:02:00 -0600, Gigglz <frekklz@hotmail.com> wrote:

> each time you are honest and you tell them the truth...or try > to explain reality...they bite your head off?

> >so you are headless?

> yes, and it is really strange :-) I cannot see a thing!

> Did you try looking up your ass. I suspect that's where you will find it.

whadd'ah bout her arms tho. she threw THEM up'n tha air.

(i ain't one ta talk tho. i lose my foot a lot.)

~t

"~tanya" <Subnbellle@aol.com> wrote in message
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> ASA-P OWNER wrote:
>> Tell Laurie to pound sand.
>
> who said anything about Laurie?
>
> you made that up.
>
> right?
>
> or did i miss sumthin'.
>
Gigglz's and her best friend the drunk and over medicated Laurie are on the
outs again. It's hilarious.
These morons who befriend Laurie do not understand her at all, and they
never will. <g>

ASA-P OWNER wrote:

> Gigglz's and her best friend the drunk and over medicated Laurie are on the
> outs again. It's hilarious.
> These morons who befriend Laurie do not understand her at all, and they
> never will. <g>

perhaps understanding doesn't necessarily beget empathy.

maybe the two can be mutually exclusive.

i could be wrong.

i still don't see Laurie mentioned, but i s'pose it's a valid
assumption.

kinda sad, doncha think, if it IS valid?

let's talk about our impendin' marriage.

thassah happy sujjeck.

LONG NECK PBRS AT THA RECEPTION.... Y'ALL COME !

(and Dan? ya gotta kiss tha bride.)

and noooooo, rules ain't made ta be broken.

consumation is in order, too..... (dammit.)

.... don't ferget ta tip yer waiter....'n SMOKE'M IF YA GOTTEM !

~ASA-P OWNER's property

lalalalalala......... per-klunk.

"~tanya" <Subnbellle@aol.com> wrote in message
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> ASA-P OWNER wrote:
>
>> Gigglz's and her best friend the drunk and over medicated Laurie are on
>> the
>> outs again. It's hilarious.
>> These morons who befriend Laurie do not understand her at all, and they
>> never will. <g>
>
> perhaps understanding doesn't necessarily beget empathy.
>
> maybe the two can be mutually exclusive.
>
LOL! Perhaps you should look up the word empathy, and get back to me.

Unless you've spent most of your life as a gold digging drunken whore
empathizing with Laurie could be next to impossible.

ASA-P OWNER wrote:
> LOL! Perhaps you should look up the word empathy, and get back to me.

to identify with a situation doesn't mean to sympathize. it does
require a modicum of understanding of what the situation is in order to
identify.

i was asking nothing of you, demanding nothing of you, it's merely not
my style. (as if i gotta style...lord.)

~~~~perhaps understanding doesn't necessarily beget empathy. maybe the
two can be mutually exclusive. i could be wrong. i still don't see
Laurie mentioned, but i s'pose it's a valid
assumption. kinda sad, doncha think, if it IS valid?~~~~

as you can see, i was making an observation, a personal one, not to be
confused with a "truth." i was also suggesting possibilities, not to
be confused with "truths," and throwing in my opinion, not to be
confused with the "truth."

i have people in my life i despise and could or WOULDn't sympathize
with, yet i can relate and empathize.

i wasn't demanding anything of you, Dan, nor was i asking anything of
you. i'm accepting of people as they are, i don't pretend that adding
or subtracting from from people would lend even a modicum of interest,
much less joy to my life.

i prefer RAW, IRON...SOUL.

i think you know that, Dan.

> Unless you've spent most of your life as a gold digging drunken whore
> empathizing with Laurie could be next to impossible.

now... not that being a gold diggin' drunken whore doesn't have it's
appeal, mind ya, but i never been cute enuff ta pull that'n off.

i had ta "wet muh lipppppppppppppppppps'n make love to tha cam'rah"...
and all i heard for years was "GURL? YOU BETTAH WERK!"

(SASHAY, SHANTE')

....and WERK !

now in muh old age i gotta work just downright laborious "jobs"... and
it makes me just wanna cry.

SEND MONEY !

xoxoxoxoxo

~t

ASA-P OWNER wrote:

> "~tanya" <Subnbellle@aol.com> wrote in message
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>>ASA-P OWNER wrote:
>>
>>
>>>Gigglz's and her best friend the drunk and over medicated Laurie are on
>>>the
>>>outs again. It's hilarious.
>>>These morons who befriend Laurie do not understand her at all, and they
>>>never will. <g>
>>
>>perhaps understanding doesn't necessarily beget empathy.
>>
>>maybe the two can be mutually exclusive.
>>
>
> LOL! Perhaps you should look up the word empathy, and get back to me.
>
> Unless you've spent most of your life as a gold digging drunken whore
> empathizing with Laurie could be next to impossible.
>
>

tanya is a douche bag

"Juan The Cable Guy" <juan@cable.com> wrote in message
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> ASA-P OWNER wrote:
>
>> "~tanya" <Subnbellle@aol.com> wrote in message
>> news:1169520575.460077.24560@a75g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
>>
>>>ASA-P OWNER wrote:
>>>
>>>
>>>>Gigglz's and her best friend the drunk and over medicated Laurie are on
>>>>the
>>>>outs again. It's hilarious.
>>>>These morons who befriend Laurie do not understand her at all, and they
>>>>never will. <g>
>>>
>>>perhaps understanding doesn't necessarily beget empathy.
>>>
>>>maybe the two can be mutually exclusive.
>>>
>>
>> LOL! Perhaps you should look up the word empathy, and get back to me.
>>
>> Unless you've spent most of your life as a gold digging drunken whore
>> empathizing with Laurie could be next to impossible.
>
> tanya is a douche bag
>
That's probably why she has so much empathy for you pope. She understands
you....

I have no idea who you refer to, with your quandary. In general, if
you were a "care-provider" for this person, you would continuously set
aside your own needs, and attempt to assist and support the person
you're having difficulties with. If it isn't a professional care-
giving situation, that changes the whole thing - making it a simple
"adult to adult" relationship. Adult/Adult relationships (by
definition) require that there be a 'give and take' element. Once
your "give" exceeds your "take" there are going to be problems, and
they will snowball into larger problems, and eventually the
relationship will fail. You can do whatever you like about it at this
point, but know that if you give more than you get, you will not
achieve longevity (in terms of knowing this person).

Gary