<Paul> wrote in message news

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> If I could, I'd like to solicit the opinions of the folks here on the
> book in my subject line. I have to admit, after exploration, I am
> confused as ever as to what is the right thing to do.
>
> Currently, my opinion is that surgery is the best treatment for
> eradicating the cancer but it also comes with the highest percentage
> of risk for incontinence and impotence. Of the surgical methods, the
> RLRP seems to be the best option. Radiation leaves the chance of
> damaging surrounding tissue and does not appear to be as thorough at
> treating the cancer over the long term but has far less risk
> associated with I&I
>
> At 45 years of age, I am most interested in staying alive to be a
> father and husband but obviously am fearful of the I&I that may come
> from surgery, not to mention microscopic cancer not taken care of
> during the procedure.
>
> Also, I am starting out by going to see Dr. Tewari at NYPH Cornell in
> the near future for a consult. Has anyone here had any experience with
> Dr. Tewari? He came highly recommended.
>
> Please feel free to not sugar coat responses (not that some of you
> would) as I am humbled by my ignorance and make no bones about it, and
> as always all responses are valued and appreciated.
I'm one of the few guys in this NG who has, for the moment, chosen "active
surveillance" rather than surgery, radiation, etc. I was initially planning
on surgery, then read Dr. Bradley Hennenfent's book, which is pretty much a
tirade against most conventional forms of treatment. I'm glad it made me
hesistate, because I then did a LOT more research. An early discovery was
that the surgeon I first saw, who I had assumed would do my operation, was a
nice guy but not a particular expert. I found my way to a team of prostate
oncology specialists who don't discourage active forms of treatment, but who
also are supportive if patients want to move slowly.
So I guess I owe Hennenfent a debt of gratitude. That said, much of the data
used in the book is fairly old, in terms of the rapid pace of research in
prostate cancer, and I think most specialists, regardless of their approach,
would say he is pretty extreme in his views.
At 45 you are nearly 20 years younger than I am. I cannot imagine being in
your position and NOT electing some form of active treatment. I don't know
your stats (PSA, Gleason, etc.) but the fact that you have been diagnosed at
your young age, and your family history, suggests that you do want to move
aggressively to give yourself the best chance of a long life with your
family.
Certainly there are risks of side effects, including incontinence and
impotence. My brother, some years older than I, has wrestled with both
following his surgery. But he has managed to live a very good, full life
regardless.
From what I understand, it is NOT true that radiation has a low risk of
incontinence and impotence. It's just that such side effects, if they occur,
tned show up later (as may rectal damage.) Since you are so young, there's a
chance that such side effects could show up in your 50s, while you are still
younger than most of the guys in this group.
Another consideration to discuss with your doctor is what happens if the
treatment you select doesn't do the job. If you have surgery, you can later
radiate the pelvic area if rising PSA suggests that some cancerous tissue
was left behind. If your initial treatment method is radiation, you
typically won't have the option of surgery later.
You are on the right track, doing research and exploring your options.
Continue to do so until you are comfortable in your choice, recognizing that
members of our club never get certainty, just probabilities. But interpret
all of what you read, and the advice you may see here, in light of your
relatively young age -- meaning you may want to focus much more on lifespan
than on quality of life. My recollection is that Hennenfent puts a lot of
emphasis on QOL issues.
Good luck, and good health.
Alex