Semi-hard "Willie" Leakage

Being over a month out of robotic, I was given the go-ahead for sexual
activity. Despite using only about 2 pads/day now, I find that as soon
as sexual excitement begins I start leaking like crazy. "Willie" is
responding w/o meds to about 75% capacity. But obviously, intercourse
would be out of the question.

Have others found that even after "normal" leakage has become minimal,
that sexual excitement causes much leakage? Is this usually the last
hurdle in becoming leak-free?

RML

RML wrote:

> Have others found that even after "normal" leakage has become minimal,
> that sexual excitement causes much leakage? Is this usually the last
> hurdle in becoming leak-free?

Leakage? I wish! How about splattering off the shower wall! No way I
could have sex of any sort anywhere else. I can sometimes -- and it's
unpredictable -- shoot many ounces just a minute or two after voiding my
bladder. I often squirt far more urine during an orgasm than I'll leak
into a pad over a day or two.

I. *P*.

Sometime in the past a couple of the men said they used a condom for the
problem during sex.
Tom
"I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddaboutit@noway.nohow> wrote in message
news:wAbZg.275$qv1.63@newsfe04.lga...
> RML wrote:
>
>> Have others found that even after "normal" leakage has become minimal,
>> that sexual excitement causes much leakage? Is this usually the last
>> hurdle in becoming leak-free?
>
> Leakage? I wish! How about splattering off the shower wall! No way I could
> have sex of any sort anywhere else. I can sometimes -- and it's
> unpredictable -- shoot many ounces just a minute or two after voiding my
> bladder. I often squirt far more urine during an orgasm than I'll leak
> into a pad over a day or two.
>
> I. *P*.

"RML" <rml@nospam.net> wrote in message
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> Being over a month out of robotic, I was given the go-ahead for sexual
> activity. Despite using only about 2 pads/day now, I find that as soon
> as sexual excitement begins I start leaking like crazy. "Willie" is
> responding w/o meds to about 75% capacity. But obviously, intercourse
> would be out of the question.
>

Why out of the question when you're at 75%? I've been able to use it at
25% sometimes when I'm too lazy to use the vitamin V.

> Have others found that even after "normal" leakage has become minimal,
> that sexual excitement causes much leakage? Is this usually the last
> hurdle in becoming leak-free?
>
> RML


Yes yes yes... 4 years post op and dry, but arousal still causes drips.
I don't know the physiological mechanism for this, but it happens very
frequently. I may need to excuse myself from foreplay a few times to "wring
it out". I'm thinking that arousal, instead of causing hardness, relaxes the
one valve we have left? I give my wife the ultimate compliment when I tell
her that after almost 30 years of marriage she still makes me pee when I
look at her. She doesn't laugh.


--
JK Sinrod
www.SinrodStudios.com
www.MyConeyIslandMemories.com

that is normal - willi is excited
It will stop eventually - after a year or so



On Tue, 17 Oct 2006 22:41:36 GMT, "Tom Mastin"
<mastint001@nospamhawaii.rr.com> wrote:

>Sometime in the past a couple of the men said they used a condom for the
>problem during sex.
>Tom
>"I.P. Freely" <fuhgheddaboutit@noway.nohow> wrote in message
>news:wAbZg.275$qv1.63@newsfe04.lga...
>> RML wrote:
>>
>>> Have others found that even after "normal" leakage has become minimal,
>>> that sexual excitement causes much leakage? Is this usually the last
>>> hurdle in becoming leak-free?
>>
>> Leakage? I wish! How about splattering off the shower wall! No way I could
>> have sex of any sort anywhere else. I can sometimes -- and it's
>> unpredictable -- shoot many ounces just a minute or two after voiding my
>> bladder. I often squirt far more urine during an orgasm than I'll leak
>> into a pad over a day or two.
>>
>> I. *P*.
>

It is out of the question not because of rigidity, but because we are
not into golden showers.

On Tue, 17 Oct 2006 19:09:51 -0400, "glassman" <jksinrod@aol.com>
wrote:

> Why out of the question when you're at 75%? I've been able to use it at
>25% sometimes when I'm too lazy to use the vitamin V.

RML wrote:
> It is out of the question not because of rigidity, but because we are
> not into golden showers.

So do it in the shower/hot tub, where it doesn't really matter.

The Solution to Pollution is Dilution.

I.P.

RR wrote:
> that is normal - willi is excited
> It will stop eventually - after a year or so

I HOPE he never ceases getting excited. At two years, he's as squirty as
ever.

I.P. wrote
>>> Leakage? I wish! How about splattering off the shower wall! No way I could
>>> have sex of any sort anywhere else. I can sometimes -- and it's
>>> unpredictable -- shoot many ounces just a minute or two after voiding my
>>> bladder. I often squirt far more urine during an orgasm than I'll leak
>>> into a pad over a day or two.
>>>
>>> I. *P*.

"RML" <rml@nospam.net> wrote in message
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> It is out of the question not because of rigidity, but because we are
> not into golden showers.
>


Keep taking a bathroom break, eventually it stops
Use rubber under sheet (kinky)
Use a penis ring (google it)
One of you grab & squeeze it at the base until it's in (works well)
In the shower (very sexy)
Condom?
Try laying down (keeps me dry, but kills erection for me)


It's a shame to not use it just because you can't do all the things you
used to. You need to be creative and adapt if you want to get any.

--
JK Sinrod
www.SinrodStudios.com
www.MyConeyIslandMemories.com