Ciao for real

I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
when being honest with me.

Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
all well and will keep you in my prayers.

I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling is
very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
or another.

When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.

I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all the
groups that I have been accused of doing that at.

I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.

Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.

Giuditta

The very best to you. You have been wonderful and kind here. Please stop by
in the future.
Gail
"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...
>I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>tact when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
> is very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
> way or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
> the groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
>

Giuditta wrote:
> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
> when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling is
> very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
> or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all the
> groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
>
>
All the best to you Judy and your family, please let us know how you are
doing from time to time. I for one can say you never offended me, and
never once saw anything offensive in any of your post.

Best wishes and ((hugs))

Caz.
Scott's mom

Bye

On 26 mei, 15:27, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
> when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling is
> very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
> or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all the
> groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta

"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...
>I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>tact when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
> is very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
> way or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
> the groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
Stop by now and then. Don't allow anyone stop you from visiting. Be well,
Betsy

"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...
>I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>tact when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
> is very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
> way or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
> the groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
>
I hope you're happy now. You've just removed a vital part of this
newsgroup, who has shown nothing but compassion. You know who you are.
You've done it before.

Don't leave us, please....

betsyb schreef:
> "Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
> news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...
> >I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
> >tact when being honest with me.
> >
> > Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> > all well and will keep you in my prayers.
> >
> > I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> > have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
> > is very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
> > way or another.
> >
> > When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> > opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
> >
> > I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> > I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> > know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
> > the groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
> >
> > I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
> >
> > Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
> >
> > Giuditta
> Stop by now and then. Don't allow anyone stop you from visiting. Be well,
> Betsy

Giuditta wrote:
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.

All the same, don't be a stranger.

--
We can't possibly imprison 300 million Americans for not paying their
taxes, so let's grant all of them amnesty NOW!

"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...


| I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
| have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
is
| very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
| or another.
|
|
I understand, Giuditta. Goodbye, and Thanks.
Old Bill.

Goodbye, Judy,

May you be blessed by good fortune for the rest of your life. May your
children and grandchildren bring you joy and pride. May you live a long
and healthy life bringing honor to Don and your family.

I know I speak for the regulars when I say that it was our pleasure to
have been as helpful as we could during your trials.

There is no reason for you to linger here. Get on with life! Don would
have wanted it that way.

My best wishes,
Janet

--
Janet Wilder
Bad spelling. Bad punctuation
Good Friends. Good Life

Although I don't know you well I am sorry to see you go. I hope you find
peace

--
Lynn

"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in message
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net...
>I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>tact when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
> is very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
> way or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
> the groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
>

On May 26, 9:27 am, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
> when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling is
> very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
> or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all the
> groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta

Sorry to see you go...you have as much to offer as anyone. Be well.
Alex

Hi Giuditta,

You will be missed !

My humble opinion is that anything you need to do right now to take care of
yourself ... is good.

Come back any time.

best, Uncle Sally

"Giuditta" <jmarrs@myspeedworks.com> wrote in
news:ZAW5i.45$1G.174@eagle.america.net:

Judy,

Please do what you need to do to take care of you. Check in from time to
time & let us know how you are doing. We care.

Fig

On May 26, 4:27 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
> when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta


Hi Judy,

So sorry to see you leave here, however you need to do what is right
for you. Do drop by now and again to say hi, if you feel like it.

I wish you all the best in building your new life, God bless you with
love and peace,

isi

<islavision2004@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:1180243849.573169.199070@q66g2000hsg.googlegr oups.com...
> On May 26, 4:27 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
>> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>> tact
>> when being honest with me.
>>
>> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish
>> you
>> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>>
>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>
>> Giuditta
>
>
> Hi Judy,
>
> So sorry to see you leave here, however you need to do what is right
> for you. Do drop by now and again to say hi, if you feel like it.
>
> I wish you all the best in building your new life, God bless you with
> love and peace,
>
> isi

Thanks every one of you!!! You've been my little family here that I have
felt close to even though I didn't personally know you all. You rode the
roller coaster with me since November, and I will never forget it. God
bless you all.

Love and peace out!

Judy

Giuditta wrote:
> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use tact
> when being honest with me.
>
> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish you
> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>
> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling is
> very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one way
> or another.
>
> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back and
> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>
> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you all
> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all the
> groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>
> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta
>
>


Judy, Be well. It has been nice getting to know you here. Take care
of you. Belle

Guiditta, best wishes to you. Check in w/us every so often. We will miss
you!

"maryanne kehoe" <atlsvo@webtv.net> wrote in message
news:23952-465BDCBB-908@storefull-3253.bay.webtv.net...
> Guiditta, best wishes to you. Check in w/us every so often. We will miss
> you!


Thanls so much...both of you.

Peace & Love,
J

maryanne kehoe wrote:
> Guiditta, best wishes to you. Check in w/us every so often. We will miss
> you!
>
Judy:

I will miss you! Check me out at myspace. From time to time I'll post
you message to brightrn up your day.

Frank

>
> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> Giuditta

Good luck to you Judy,
I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
and kind here. Please stop by
in the future.

Becky

"Frank Sharkey" <sharkeyfamily@adelphia.net> wrote in message
news:4663413d$0$12445$4c368faf@roadrunner.com...
> maryanne kehoe wrote:
>> Guiditta, best wishes to you. Check in w/us every so often. We will miss
>> you!
>>
> Judy:
>
> I will miss you! Check me out at myspace. From time to time I'll post you
> message to brightrn up your day.
>
> Frank

Thanks Frank. You're a real sweetie pie. I will go leave you a comment right
now on your MySpace.

God Bless,
Judy

"Beckys883" <beckys_883@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googlegro ups.com...
>
>>
>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>
>> Giuditta
>
> Good luck to you Judy,
> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
> and kind here. Please stop by
> in the future.
>
> Becky

Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.

Peace Out!
Judy

"Alex" <usenetgirl@gmail.com> wrote in message
news:1180223106.980958.255460@q75g2000hsh.googlegr oups.com...
> On May 26, 9:27 am, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
>> I appreciate the folks who have been kind here and those of you who use
>> tact
>> when being honest with me.
>>
>> Thank you for being so helpful throughout my husband's illness. I wish
>> you
>> all well and will keep you in my prayers.
>>
>> I will probably drop in to lurk to see how you're all doing, but I don't
>> have enough space in my heart for anymore hurt right now, and the feeling
>> is
>> very strong that someone intentioanlly throws cyber darts at it in one
>> way
>> or another.
>>
>> When I see myself lashing back out, then I know it's time to step back
>> and
>> opt for peace of mind. I've had enough and am throwing in the towel.
>>
>> I hope that in any of my posts that I didn't offend anyone, and if I did,
>> I'm sorry. I'm not the most computer savvy person in the world, as you
>> all
>> know. I have never knowingly crossposted and don't even subscribe to all
>> the
>> groups that I have been accused of doing that at.
>>
>> I have two bosses: God and my principal. I don't need another one.
>>
>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>
>> Giuditta
>
> Sorry to see you go...you have as much to offer as anyone. Be well.
> Alex


Alex,
Thanks for keeping up with me.

Cheers!
Judy

Giuditta wrote:
> "Beckys883" <beckys_883@yahoo.com> wrote in message
> news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googlegro ups.com...
>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>>
>>> Giuditta
>> Good luck to you Judy,
>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
>> and kind here. Please stop by
>> in the future.
>>
>> Becky
>
> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>
> Peace Out!
> Judy
>
>
Hi Judy.

Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.

Best wishes to you and your family.

Caz.
Scott's mom

"Caz" <me@no-way.com> wrote in message
news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
> Giuditta wrote:
>> "Beckys883" <beckys_883@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>> news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googlegro ups.com...
>>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>>>
>>>> Giuditta
>>> Good luck to you Judy,
>>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
>>> and kind here. Please stop by
>>> in the future.
>>>
>>> Becky
>>
>> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>
>> Peace Out!
>> Judy
> Hi Judy.
>
> Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.
>
> Best wishes to you and your family.
>
> Caz.
> Scott's mom

Hey Scott's mom!!!
I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not worthy.
But I'm keeping up with you all.

It's nice to hear from you.

Thanks!
J

Giuditta wrote:
> "Caz" <me@no-way.com> wrote in message
> news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
>> Giuditta wrote:
>>> "Beckys883" <beckys_883@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>>> news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googlegro ups.com...
>>>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>>>>
>>>>> Giuditta
>>>> Good luck to you Judy,
>>>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
>>>> and kind here. Please stop by
>>>> in the future.
>>>>
>>>> Becky
>>> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>>
>>> Peace Out!
>>> Judy
>> Hi Judy.
>>
>> Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.
>>
>> Best wishes to you and your family.
>>
>> Caz.
>> Scott's mom
>
> Hey Scott's mom!!!
> I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not worthy.
> But I'm keeping up with you all.
>
> It's nice to hear from you.
>
> Thanks!
> J
>
>
Hi J :-)

I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know how
the grief thing goes.

It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.

Best wishes.

Caz.
Scott's mom.

"Caz" <me@no-way.com> wrote in message
news:5iy9i.5287$sM1.764@newsfe4-win.ntli.net...
> Giuditta wrote:
>> "Caz" <me@no-way.com> wrote in message
>> news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
>>> Giuditta wrote:
>>>> "Beckys883" <beckys_883@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>>>> news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googlegro ups.com...
>>>>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>>>>>
>>>>>> Giuditta
>>>>> Good luck to you Judy,
>>>>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
>>>>> and kind here. Please stop by
>>>>> in the future.
>>>>>
>>>>> Becky
>>>> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>>>
>>>> Peace Out!
>>>> Judy
>>> Hi Judy.
>>>
>>> Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.
>>>
>>> Best wishes to you and your family.
>>>
>>> Caz.
>>> Scott's mom
>>
>> Hey Scott's mom!!!
>> I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not
>> worthy. But I'm keeping up with you all.
>>
>> It's nice to hear from you.
>>
>> Thanks!
>> J
> Hi J :-)
>
> I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
> down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know how
> the grief thing goes.
>
> It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.
>
> Best wishes.
>
> Caz.
> Scott's mom.


You're something else, ya know. Thanks! I think it must be in the
weather...it's been a bit down here lately, too. It's hard to miss the ones
we love and frustrating because we can't control it.

Losing a child has to be the worst of all.

Peace to you,
J

On Jun 8, 1:13 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
> "Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>
> news:5iy9i.5287$sM1.764@newsfe4-win.ntli.net...
>
>
>
> > Giuditta wrote:
> >> "Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
> >>news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
> >>> Giuditta wrote:
> >>>> "Beckys883" <beckys_...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
> >>>>news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googl egroups.com...
> >>>>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>
> >>>>>> Giuditta
> >>>>> Good luck to you Judy,
> >>>>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
> >>>>> and kind here. Please stop by
> >>>>> in the future.
>
> >>>>> Becky
> >>>> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>
> >>>> Peace Out!
> >>>> Judy
> >>> Hi Judy.
>
> >>> Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.
>
> >>> Best wishes to you and your family.
>
> >>> Caz.
> >>> Scott's mom
>
> >> Hey Scott's mom!!!
> >> I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not
> >> worthy. But I'm keeping up with you all.
>
> >> It's nice to hear from you.
>
> >> Thanks!
> >> J
> > Hi J :-)
>
> > I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
> > down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know how
> > the grief thing goes.
>
> > It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.
>
> > Best wishes.
>
> > Caz.
> > Scott's mom.
>
> You're something else, ya know. Thanks! I think it must be in the
> weather...it's been a bit down here lately, too. It's hard to miss the ones
> we love and frustrating because we can't control it.
>
> Losing a child has to be the worst of all.
>
> Peace to you,
> J

I don't know what made you feel unwelcome here (I don't spend a lot of
time here anymore), but I hope you reconsider. Nobody here owns the
group, or is in any meaningful way the "boss". This is an unmoderated
group, and if someone makes you feel unwelcome, you can just killfile
them, never seeing another post by the offender. There are plenty
here who like you and respond, and likely more who like you and just
read.

---
CSM

<csm7532@hotmail.com> wrote in message
news:1181338786.052403.251870@m36g2000hse.googlegr oups.com...
> On Jun 8, 1:13 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
>> "Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>>
>> news:5iy9i.5287$sM1.764@newsfe4-win.ntli.net...
>>
>>
>>
>> > Giuditta wrote:
>> >> "Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>> >>news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
>> >>> Giuditta wrote:
>> >>>> "Beckys883" <beckys_...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>> >>>>news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.googl egroups.com...
>> >>>>>> Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>
>> >>>>>> Giuditta
>> >>>>> Good luck to you Judy,
>> >>>>> I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been
>> >>>>> wonderful
>> >>>>> and kind here. Please stop by
>> >>>>> in the future.
>>
>> >>>>> Becky
>> >>>> Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>
>> >>>> Peace Out!
>> >>>> Judy
>> >>> Hi Judy.
>>
>> >>> Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of
>> >>> people.
>>
>> >>> Best wishes to you and your family.
>>
>> >>> Caz.
>> >>> Scott's mom
>>
>> >> Hey Scott's mom!!!
>> >> I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not
>> >> worthy. But I'm keeping up with you all.
>>
>> >> It's nice to hear from you.
>>
>> >> Thanks!
>> >> J
>> > Hi J :-)
>>
>> > I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
>> > down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know
>> > how
>> > the grief thing goes.
>>
>> > It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.
>>
>> > Best wishes.
>>
>> > Caz.
>> > Scott's mom.
>>
>> You're something else, ya know. Thanks! I think it must be in the
>> weather...it's been a bit down here lately, too. It's hard to miss the
>> ones
>> we love and frustrating because we can't control it.
>>
>> Losing a child has to be the worst of all.
>>
>> Peace to you,
>> J
>
> I don't know what made you feel unwelcome here (I don't spend a lot of
> time here anymore), but I hope you reconsider. Nobody here owns the
> group, or is in any meaningful way the "boss". This is an unmoderated
> group, and if someone makes you feel unwelcome, you can just killfile
> them, never seeing another post by the offender. There are plenty
> here who like you and respond, and likely more who like you and just
> read.
>
> ---
> CSM


Thanks ... I have been so supported by this ng, folks are real here and
kind. Only one made me feel unwelcome, and at that point, after my husband's
death, I wasn't up for the stress of the little jabs for me to go elsewhere
like a grief group or to be asked not to use the first letter of my name, as
if I were in some weird society with Big Brother focusing on my every move
and as if we have any ownership of the alphabet...If I am tired...I might
sign off with that letter...who freakin' cares, right.

I was accused of crossposting when I didn't even realize what that was or
how it happened or how the person came up with newsgroups that I allegedly
crossposted on that I don't even subscribe to.

Let's just say, at this time in my life, I need kindness not needling, and I
appreciate yours (kindness).

Peace & Love to you,
Judy

PS
I don't know how to killfile.

csm7532@hotmail.com wrote:
> On Jun 8, 1:13 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
>
>>"Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>>
>>news:5iy9i.5287$sM1.764@newsfe4-win.ntli.net...
>>
>>
>>
>>
>>>Giuditta wrote:
>>>
>>>>"Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>>>>news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
>>>>
>>>>>Giuditta wrote:
>>>>>
>>>>>>"Beckys883" <beckys_...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>>>>>>news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.goo glegroups.com...
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>
>>>>>>>>Giuditta
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Good luck to you Judy,
>>>>>>>I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been wonderful
>>>>>>>and kind here. Please stop by
>>>>>>>in the future.
>>
>>>>>>>Becky
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>
>>>>>>Peace Out!
>>>>>>Judy
>>>>>
>>>>>Hi Judy.
>>
>>>>>Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of people.
>>
>>>>>Best wishes to you and your family.
>>
>>>>>Caz.
>>>>>Scott's mom
>>
>>>>Hey Scott's mom!!!
>>>>I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not
>>>>worthy. But I'm keeping up with you all.
>>
>>>>It's nice to hear from you.
>>
>>>>Thanks!
>>>>J
>>>
>>>Hi J :-)
>>
>>>I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
>>>down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know how
>>>the grief thing goes.
>>
>>>It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.
>>
>>>Best wishes.
>>
>>>Caz.
>>>Scott's mom.
>>
>>You're something else, ya know. Thanks! I think it must be in the
>>weather...it's been a bit down here lately, too. It's hard to miss the ones
>>we love and frustrating because we can't control it.
>>
>>Losing a child has to be the worst of all.
>>
>>Peace to you,
>>J
>
>
> I don't know what made you feel unwelcome here (I don't spend a lot of
> time here anymore), but I hope you reconsider. Nobody here owns the
> group, or is in any meaningful way the "boss". This is an unmoderated
> group, and if someone makes you feel unwelcome, you can just killfile
> them, never seeing another post by the offender. There are plenty
> here who like you and respond, and likely more who like you and just
> read.
>
> ---
> CSM
>

I find it odd that someone can post her deepest feelings here for
months, befriend and support other cancer victims and/or their loved
ones, and then be coldly dismissed when her loved one passes away.
Very odd indeed. Giudetta, no one can force you to stop participating
in this newsgroup. Don't give in to the bullies.

Kathy

"Kathy" <kb222@verizon.net> wrote in message
news:O5xai.2228$yS4.21@trnddc04...
> csm7532@hotmail.com wrote:
>> On Jun 8, 1:13 pm, "Giuditta" <jma...@myspeedworks.com> wrote:
>>
>>>"Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>>>
>>>news:5iy9i.5287$sM1.764@newsfe4-win.ntli.net...
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>
>>>>Giuditta wrote:
>>>>
>>>>>"Caz" <m...@no-way.com> wrote in message
>>>>>news:ghb9i.8616$rW2.7590@newsfe7-win.ntli.net...
>>>>>
>>>>>>Giuditta wrote:
>>>>>>
>>>>>>>"Beckys883" <beckys_...@yahoo.com> wrote in message
>>>>>>>news:1181003931.501926.35160@q66g2000hsg.go oglegroups.com...
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>>Peace & Love to you wonderful people that have so much heart.
>>>
>>>>>>>>>Giuditta
>>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>>Good luck to you Judy,
>>>>>>>>I second the statement - The very best to you. You have been
>>>>>>>>wonderful
>>>>>>>>and kind here. Please stop by
>>>>>>>>in the future.
>>>
>>>>>>>>Becky
>>>>>>>
>>>>>>>Thanks, Becky. Your kind words mean a lot to me.
>>>
>>>>>>>Peace Out!
>>>>>>>Judy
>>>>>>
>>>>>>Hi Judy.
>>>
>>>>>>Hope all is well with you. Your posts will be missed by alot of
>>>>>>people.
>>>
>>>>>>Best wishes to you and your family.
>>>
>>>>>>Caz.
>>>>>>Scott's mom
>>>
>>>>>Hey Scott's mom!!!
>>>>>I'm good...how are you? I'm mostly a lurker now, an outsider, not
>>>>>worthy. But I'm keeping up with you all.
>>>
>>>>>It's nice to hear from you.
>>>
>>>>>Thanks!
>>>>>J
>>>>
>>>>Hi J :-)
>>>
>>>>I've had a few bad days just lately, just been feeling very tearful and
>>>>down. I feel a bit better today though, it comes and goes. You know how
>>>>the grief thing goes.
>>>
>>>>It's nice to hear from you, even if it is just once in a while.
>>>
>>>>Best wishes.
>>>
>>>>Caz.
>>>>Scott's mom.
>>>
>>>You're something else, ya know. Thanks! I think it must be in the
>>>weather...it's been a bit down here lately, too. It's hard to miss the
>>>ones
>>>we love and frustrating because we can't control it.
>>>
>>>Losing a child has to be the worst of all.
>>>
>>>Peace to you,
>>>J
>>
>>
>> I don't know what made you feel unwelcome here (I don't spend a lot of
>> time here anymore), but I hope you reconsider. Nobody here owns the
>> group, or is in any meaningful way the "boss". This is an unmoderated
>> group, and if someone makes you feel unwelcome, you can just killfile
>> them, never seeing another post by the offender. There are plenty
>> here who like you and respond, and likely more who like you and just
>> read.
>>
>> ---
>> CSM
>>
>
> I find it odd that someone can post her deepest feelings here for months,
> befriend and support other cancer victims and/or their loved ones, and
> then be coldly dismissed when her loved one passes away.
> Very odd indeed. Giudetta, no one can force you to stop participating in
> this newsgroup. Don't give in to the bullies.
>
> Kathy

Thanks, Kathy! In days where things seem grim, you lifted my spirits. At
this ng, people are suffering and struggling enough without anyone causing
more strife, so I figure if I stay out of posts, they won't have to deal
with reading a bunch of nonsense from one that I assume just doesn't like
me...which is fne, I'm not in a popularity contest ... just sharing with
you all...

I didn't expect it and was a bit shocked everytime cyber darts were thrown
my way, but eventually I got it...people in my life don't do those things,
so I figure why go where someone does...why look for trouble, right.

So, I am almost paranoid about posting anything because I've become jab shy.
I've noticed that others here have lost someone and are still participating
and have not been reponded to in any unkind way, so I assume I'm just not in
the loop, clique or whatever. But the rest of you have been angels to me,
and you can't imagine how much that means to me right now.

Peace & Love to you and yours,
Judy

Dear Judith/Guidutta,

If you tell me the e-mail reading software you are using, I think I can
advise you on how "kill-file."

But the "simplest" method is just not to open the mesages from people you
have decided you don't want to hear from.

In public forums like this, where people are coming from such very different
backgrounds, it's easy to get "crossed wires" and inadvertently tick
somebody off. The anonymity, the fact we don't often know anything about
each other's age-sex-race-background, all contribute to making it easier to
exhibit aggression.

imho the person who you reacted to most strongly does this (tweaking) at
random with a variety of people, in a variety of posts. Many groups like
this have "old-timers" who come to feel, after a while, they "own" the
group, know what's best for it ... at worst that they have the right to tell
other people how to talk or feel. And often they are, in fact, people who
have made tremendous contributions to the group, and who, with other people
that don't "punch their buttons," are very helpful.

Let me invite you to think compassionately of the person you perceived as
attacking you as someone who may be having a serious personal problem with
internet addiction, and may be exhibiting symptoms of burn-out. That's a
hypothesis.

Usenet groups remain a free-for-all, and, once founded, unless moderated,
have no method to control rudeness, trolling, etc.

In any case the only thing I ask you not to do is to ask me to live by what
I "preach"

best, Uncle Sally