This is a mystery story. My friend is a very active and alert 84 year
old female. In late July she visited her PCP with complaint of stomach
pain usually when eating. Her belly was slightly swollen. She also
complained
of gallbladder pain. The following occurred up through last week:
- referred to gastro specialist who ordered C/t of torso
- patient referred to Onc in top local clinic that is ovarian specialist
- Ovarian Onc ordered scan which lit up ovaries, fat pad area over
stomach and a small spot "on" (not 'in") top of colon.
-dx:
(1) bc mets in ovaries (primary bc over 20 yr ago)
(2) probable new primary adenocarcinoma in "fat pad" area (?)
and immediately released patient to Onc stomach specialist.
- Stomach Onc put her on daily oral Aromasin (yes that's what I said,
I had her read it off the bottle for me and I looked it up.) for 3 months
starting 9/1/06. It helped with her stomach pain some. However after
about a month, her belly has started swelling more and she had difficulty
eating. Starting early Oct. she was started on chemo (haven't confirmed
what drug(s) yet) every 28 days. Apparently they suggested weekly
chemo but she had concern over getting to the clinic. Duh, ok honey
you can come once a month? What is this? I begged her to reconsider
weekly; that I'd personally coordinate a group of drivers for her.
We are very close church and musical friends and talk several times a
week. She is confused and now becoming angry. Her only advocate
has been a sister that doesn't seem to think this is too serious. A mutual
friend even went with to the visit with the Ovarian Onc and took notes
(even asked a few questions -- she has had a lot over serious health
issues of the last view years and has learned a lot of the lingo). What
the mutual friend took from that visit was that:
- there was no surgery planned for the ovaries
- adenocarcinoma in the stomach pad area was a spattering of cells
in fluid and they planned no biopsy. The diagnosis is undeterminable.
- No prognosis was given except to tell her:
"Oh, you're going to live a l-o-o-n-g time <goofy smile."
My take (and confusions):
- can understand switch from Ovarian Onc to Stomach Onc - more
serious primary? BUT why put her on a hormone treatment for
advanced mets bc? To possibly shrink the ovarian tumors? I
did a lot of web searches over the last month and couldn't see
that connection?
- Besides, what would be done for the stomach area issue. I can see
the improbability of a biopsy of a fluid filled area showing much and
could possibly (layman's guess) cause harm. Then WHY do anything?
- What the heck is with this: Oh, you're going to live a l-o-o-n-g time"
business? Isn't that a rather sneaky way of mincing words given the
relativity of "long time" to an octogenarian? I can't believe this
Clinic
would allow an member to present this to her this way. Finally she
insisted and was given a cassette tape of their diagnoses and treatment
protocol. Still no prognosis!
- Oh BTW, she DOES have gallstones and they hurt more too. Why didn't
they attempt to relieve or remove those? Give the woman a break!
I think they are not telling her the truth. She says she wants to hear it.
I'm at a loss as what to do. My heart tells me she can control this and
live her life pretty much as expected as she progresses in age. But my
head tells me that her natural decline, graceful as might have been may
be very quick and possibly painful. I pray there are better advocates
in her family than her sister. She is a widow with no children but many
nieces/nephews. Also I wonder how much the clinic can suck
out of her private insurance and Medicare before the tell her the truth.
I don't mean to sound so cynical as I am a sucker for the western health
profession. When I believe in the quality health professionals I put all
faith and trust in them. But this smells. Maybe not. Somebody prove
me wrong.
Marsha