I have no idea

what she is talking about

"eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
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> what she is talking about


maybe you should go and ,
stand at the corner candy store ,
until you figure it out
>

"eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
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> what she is talking about
>

you too eh?

"used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>
> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
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> > what she is talking about
>
> you too eh?

Methinks you hurt her feelings.

--
Rhi

"eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
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> what she is talking about

Ahhh, why do I feel that u2b may have hurt your feelings? You should know
that she is not the kind of person who would deliberately hurt anyone. I'm
quite sure she meant no harm or offense. I think she was just expressing
her frustration with *herself* for not being able to understand all of what
you write, not expressing frustration with you. I understand what you're
talking about, I'm sure others do too, but not everyone can. I have known
her long enough to know that she would not be mean or offensive towards you
on purpose. I hope you start feeling better about this soon. :-)

--
Rhi

"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>>
>>
>> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
>> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
>> > what she is talking about
>>
>> you too eh?
>
> Methinks you hurt her feelings.
>

it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.

:/

"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
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>
>> what she is talking about
>
> Ahhh, why do I feel that u2b may have hurt your feelings? You should know
> that she is not the kind of person who would deliberately hurt anyone.
> I'm
> quite sure she meant no harm or offense. I think she was just expressing
> her frustration with *herself* for not being able to understand all of
> what
> you write, not expressing frustration with you. I understand what you're
> talking about, I'm sure others do too, but not everyone can. I have known
> her long enough to know that she would not be mean or offensive towards
> you
> on purpose. I hope you start feeling better about this soon. :-)
>

thnx rhee...you are a sweetheart. i can indeed be an idiot at times. :/

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> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >>
> >>
> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
> >> > what she is talking about
> >>
> >> you too eh?
> >
> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
>
> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.
>
> :/

Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope eoygeo will
come to understand that.

--
Rhi

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> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> > "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
> > news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
> >
> >> what she is talking about
> >
> > Ahhh, why do I feel that u2b may have hurt your feelings? You should
know
> > that she is not the kind of person who would deliberately hurt anyone.
> > I'm
> > quite sure she meant no harm or offense. I think she was just
expressing
> > her frustration with *herself* for not being able to understand all of
> > what
> > you write, not expressing frustration with you. I understand what
you're
> > talking about, I'm sure others do too, but not everyone can. I have
known
> > her long enough to know that she would not be mean or offensive towards
> > you
> > on purpose. I hope you start feeling better about this soon. :-)
> >
>
> thnx rhee...you are a sweetheart. i can indeed be an idiot at times. :/

If I had a dollar for everytime I have done it, I'd be a millionaire. :-)

--
Rhi

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> "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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>> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
>> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
>> >>
>> >>
>> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
>> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
>> >> > what she is talking about
>> >>
>> >> you too eh?
>> >
>> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
>>
>> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.
>>
>> :/
>
> Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope eoygeo
> will
> come to understand that.
>

now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.

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> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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> >>
> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
> >> news:ei8eul$q8n$1@news.datemas.de...
> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> >> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >> >>
> >> >>
> >> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
> >> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
> >> >> > what she is talking about
> >> >>
> >> >> you too eh?
> >> >
> >> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
> >>
> >> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.
> >>
> >> :/
> >
> > Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope eoygeo
> > will
> > come to understand that.
> >
>
> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.

Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It wasn't on
purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll get
over it.

--
Rhi

"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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>> >
>> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>> >>
>> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
>> >> news:ei8eul$q8n$1@news.datemas.de...
>> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
>> >> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
>> >> >>
>> >> >>
>> >> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
>> >> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
>> >> >> > what she is talking about
>> >> >>
>> >> >> you too eh?
>> >> >
>> >> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
>> >>
>> >> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.
>> >>
>> >> :/
>> >
>> > Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope eoygeo
>> > will
>> > come to understand that.
>> >
>>
>> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.
>
> Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It wasn't
> on
> purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll get
> over it.

i dunno, i think i'm going thru a stage where i'm just pissing everyone off.
maybe this place needs a break from me. i wouldn't blame them cuz i kind of
need a break from myself these days. :?

"used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> >
> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> > news:aqU1h.280$lx6.122@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >>
> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
> >> news:ei8ffa$rms$1@news.datemas.de...
> >> >
> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> >> > news:BeP1h.18$Qn2.4@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >> >>
> >> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
> >> >> news:ei8eul$q8n$1@news.datemas.de...
> >> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> >> >> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
> >> >> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
> >> >> >> > what she is talking about
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> you too eh?
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
> >> >>
> >> >> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so
badly.
> >> >>
> >> >> :/
> >> >
> >> > Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope
eoygeo
> >> > will
> >> > come to understand that.
> >> >
> >>
> >> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.
> >
> > Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It
wasn't
> > on
> > purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll
get
> > over it.
>
> i dunno, i think i'm going thru a stage where i'm just pissing everyone
off.
> maybe this place needs a break from me. i wouldn't blame them cuz i kind
of
> need a break from myself these days. :?
>
> i like the new you ,
this is the best we ever got along

used2be wrote:
> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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> >
> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> > news:aqU1h.280$lx6.122@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >>
> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
> >> news:ei8ffa$rms$1@news.datemas.de...
> >> >
> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> >> > news:BeP1h.18$Qn2.4@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >> >>
> >> >> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
> >> >> news:ei8eul$q8n$1@news.datemas.de...
> >> >> > "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
> >> >> > news:a_O1h.6$Qn2.0@tornado.texas.rr.com...
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> "eoygeo" <eoygeo@aol.com> wrote in message
> >> >> >> news:1162321820.070003.39870@m73g2000cwd.googlegro ups.com...
> >> >> >> > what she is talking about
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> you too eh?
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Methinks you hurt her feelings.
> >> >>
> >> >> it's the dreaded 'foot in mouth' disease that i suffer from so badly.
> >> >>
> >> >> :/
> >> >
> >> > Oh, hell, all of us do it. I know it wasn't on purpose. I hope eoygeo
> >> > will
> >> > come to understand that.
> >> >
> >>
> >> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.
> >
> > Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It wasn't
> > on
> > purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll get
> > over it.
>
> i dunno, i think i'm going thru a stage where i'm just pissing everyone off.
> maybe this place needs a break from me. i wouldn't blame them cuz i kind of
> need a break from myself these days. :?

Nah, if you leave who's gonna vote for the running on the spot, flappy
feet "dancing"?

"used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
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>>> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.
>>
>> Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It wasn't
>> on
>> purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll
>> get
>> over it.
>
> i dunno, i think i'm going thru a stage where i'm just pissing everyone
> off. maybe this place needs a break from me. i wouldn't blame them cuz i
> kind of need a break from myself these days. :?

First...I think we need a break from ourselves a lot more often than other
people need a break from us, primarily because we are dealing with a
different "us" alone in our head with all those thoughts, many of them
unspoken. Second...you have to do what's right for you. Needing a break
from yourself is one thing, feeling you need a break from ASD because that's
what *you* want to do is another, however, feeling like *we* need a break
from you is a whole other animal. It isn't up to you to determine what we
want or need. You don't get to decide whether or not ASD needs a break from
you, we do, and speaking for myself, and I don't doubt others, I don't need
a break from you and don't want you going anywhere. I think we all go
through stages like the one you're describing. I know I do. You did all
you could do to rectify the situation and express your regret and how she
reacts or responds to that is HER responsibility, not yours. You have no
control over how someone else feels. She'll have to work that out for
herself. And you my dear, have to forgive yourself and stop beating
yourself up over this. For all we know there could be a hundred other
reasons for her downturn, she is mentally ill after all, that has little to
do with this one small part. I understand what you're feeling, really I do,
I have felt it myself more times than I can remember, but you have to find a
way to let yourself off the proverbial hook at this point, and take care of
your own feelings. You're a good and kind soul Cindy. Try to remember that
as you work through this.

--
Rhi

"Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.ca> wrote in message
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> "used2be" <used2be@nowhere.com> wrote in message
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>>
>> "Rhiannon" <rhianon@sympatico.com> wrote in message
>> news:eib550$4lj$1@news.datemas.de...
>
>>>> now i feel really bad...she still hasn't responded.
>>>
>>> Try not to worry too much hon. I know, easier said than done. It
>>> wasn't on
>>> purpose and I saw your apology, what more can you do? I'm sure she'll
>>> get
>>> over it.
>>
>> i dunno, i think i'm going thru a stage where i'm just pissing everyone
>> off. maybe this place needs a break from me. i wouldn't blame them cuz i
>> kind of need a break from myself these days. :?
>
> First...I think we need a break from ourselves a lot more often than other
> people need a break from us, primarily because we are dealing with a
> different "us" alone in our head with all those thoughts, many of them
> unspoken. Second...you have to do what's right for you. Needing a break
> from yourself is one thing, feeling you need a break from ASD because
> that's what *you* want to do is another, however, feeling like *we* need a
> break from you is a whole other animal. It isn't up to you to determine
> what we want or need. You don't get to decide whether or not ASD needs a
> break from you, we do, and speaking for myself, and I don't doubt others,
> I don't need a break from you and don't want you going anywhere. I think
> we all go through stages like the one you're describing. I know I do.
> You did all you could do to rectify the situation and express your regret
> and how she reacts or responds to that is HER responsibility, not yours.
> You have no control over how someone else feels. She'll have to work that
> out for herself. And you my dear, have to forgive yourself and stop
> beating yourself up over this. For all we know there could be a hundred
> other reasons for her downturn, she is mentally ill after all, that has
> little to do with this one small part. I understand what you're feeling,
> really I do, I have felt it myself more times than I can remember, but you
> have to find a way to let yourself off the proverbial hook at this point,
> and take care of your own feelings. You're a good and kind soul Cindy.
> Try to remember that as you work through this.

awwww, thank you for writing this wonderful and insightful reply, my friend
rhee....you are a fanTABulous person...and i love you very much!

~cindy