then the kids

lose yet another father figure.

he's been really good to them. I feel extreme guilt for considering
what I'm considering knowing how starved for a father figure since
their dad dropped out of site over 3 years ago.

justpackrat wrote:
> lose yet another father figure.
>
> he's been really good to them. I feel extreme guilt for considering
> what I'm considering knowing how starved for a father figure since
> their dad dropped out of site over 3 years ago.
Am I driving you crazy yet, One more thing okay. Whats best for you
is best for them. Don't you see the best thing you can do for your
kids is find a way to be as whole and happy as you can be. That is the
only real thing you can give them. !!!! jill