Tresa <kelly_lenti@yahoo.com> wrote:
: hi everyone!
: well, it's been an informative couple of days--sorry i didn't do this
: sooner--but i can say that i have a very different view of things as a
: result. better late than never, as they say!
: first off, i met with the perinatologist (an ob/gyn who specialises in
: high-risk pregnancies, like girls who are diabetic) this morning at our
: medical centre, who gave me some sobering feedback. in short, she
: strongly recommended putting off conception until the sugars were
: better controlled. given my age and overall fitness, she had some very
: good suggestions. then i met with the geneticist who asked a bunch of
: questions about my family history. since i was adopted from a foreign
: country and there is no known family medical history, i couldn't tell
: her much. she gave me the stats on the heritability of t2 diabetes--not
: pretty--and given how severe mine is she was pretty sure it must run in
: my family. she also mentioned that my very poor eyesight could be
: passed along as well, though didn't have hard numbers for the relative
: risk of inheriting bad myopia. oh well, i've worn glasses forever and
: get by just fine with them--i just strap them on when i am in the pool
: swimming!!
: the nutritionist was also helpful, though much of this was familiar to
: me. i've been pretty meticulous in keeping dietary records, studying
: the literature (i am training to be a research scientist, after all,
: and have access to the medical library here on campus), and correlating
: diet and exercise to bg values. given this info, she thought that my
: brittleness was due to loss of counter-regulatory hormones, and
: suggested i go back to my endo to see about glucagon as an adjunct.
: this i will do. ( it occurs to me that i don't really have a good
: explanation/excuse for not having researched diabetes and pregnancy
: more; a byproduct i suspect of just really wanting to have kids and not
: wanting anything to stand in my way.)
: my husband was with me all through this (he's an er doc) and we had a
: lengthy conversation afterwards. given all this new info, we decided
: first off to stop trying to conceive (i hope it's not too late!) until
: the sugars are improved and stable over a 6-month time frame--the
: perinatologist recommendation. also, given my physical condition and
: desperate need for surgery, we discussed options such as adoption and
: just risking the inability to breastfeed. since my adoption experience
: was not so great--mostly a string of foster homes--i am not keen on
: this idea. however, i am always open to considering just about
: anything.
: anyway, none of these are easy decisions, but i feel something of a
: relief just putting pregnancy on hold for a bit. college is enough of a
: challenge right now, and for my own well being i need to get back into
: sports more fully, not just casual recreation and hour or two day.
: anyway, i am going off for a very long bike ride now, savouring the
: indian summer here, just to let things sit. thank you everyone for the
: fabulous feedback, and needless to say i will be a very active
: participant on asd. this may have saved a few lives!!
: love,
: kelly.
: btw, fbg=95 this am!!!
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It sounds like you got some good advice and have shown the maturity to
take it in and use it. This is gret at your oung age!!!
Two things , about the myopia, my Mother had none and my Father had slight
myopia. My brother and I both had considerable myopia. My two sons (who
I mentioned in a previous post aobut age of husbands) one has severe
myopia and the other slight(he can drive without glasses). As I said,
breastfeeding is not the endo of the world, although it is VERY much in
vogue these days.
Get the diabetes under control (reading here will help) adn don't make any
fast decisions. You may bea ble to have your own child or you may ifind
adoption is a good road for you. I have both, as I told you earlier, I
adopted my husband's daughter when pregnanat with my first son.
Keep on in the sensible way ou have just told us aobut and things shuld
work out well for ou.
Wendy