"Evelyn Ruut" <mama-lionsox@hvc.rr.com> wrote in message
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> Interesting and scary. In my opinion, most smokers are so firmly
attached
> to their habit that nothing will scare them into stopping (with only a few
> exceptions). If the threat of choking to death from COPD or lung cancer
> doesn't do the trick, the thought of living on dialysis won't either. I
> am so glad I stopped as a young woman. But what can get people to give
up
> such a powerfully addictive habit? Fear alone doesn't seem to do the
> trick.
The only thing that made me stop was pregnancy. And even then I didn't do
it right away. I kept thinking of all those other women I know who smoked
throughout their pregnancies and were still smoking today. I didn't want to
quit. I really didn't. And then I thought of my friend nagging her mom.
My niece nagging her mom. They really wanted their moms to quit. That
didn't work, of course. But I do hate nagging! I decided it was then or
never. I got hypnotized. It didn't work immediately. I'd gotten down to
smoking maybe three cigarettes per day, if that. I'd light them, take a
puff, then put them out. I smoked the rest of that day. Then stopped.
I've lit one cigarette since then. I played with it, put the smoke in my
mouth but didn't inhale. Then I put it out.
I also fully intended to start smoking again as soon as I had the baby.
Even sneaked two packs of cigarettes into my suitcase that I brought to the
hospital. Along with some bars of chocolate. Heh! Little did I know they
wouldn't allow me outside, nor did they allow smoking anywhere on hospital
grounds.
I do remember the look on my newly born daughter's face when my husband lit
up a cigarette near her though. She waved her fists in front of her face,
her face turned red and she started kicking and crying. There was no way I
was going to upset her that badly.
I never started up again, although it is something I'd very much like to do.
I can't say that I ever enjoyed much in life as much as I enjoyed smoking.
I REALLY enjoyed it. But I know how hard it was for me to quit after 27
years. I won't start up again.
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