<pvylim@gmail.com> wrote in message
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> wifey's period has come again so my previous attempt to impregnate her
> didn't work. we're going to try again a few days after her period is
> over and hopefully this time, succeed. i am wondering whether i should
> lay off the meds as i hear they lower the semen production levels. i'm
> on 1mg risperdal a day.
If you can afford a fertility test and haven't taken one, both of you should
take it. Even an infertile man or woman can conceive and I've known those
who have, because medicine admits it doesn't completely understand human
fertility, but should either you or your wife prove to have fertility
problems, there are a million ways a doctor can help you conceive. I know
some of them but it all depends on what the precise problems are, because
there are literally dozens and they can occur in any combination.
If you want to conceive the natural way you have to let go of the dogma that
sex must be done _only_ for fun. You're still allowed to have fun during
sex, but your primary purpose is to make a baby, and that changes things.
You have to make sure that you ejaculate into your wife's vagina as quickly
and as often as possible and adjust your sexual practices to make sure that
happens. Since the sexual dogma of our day is all about giving women orgasms
and male ejaculation is widely considered either unimportant or just plain
wrong, that might require a 180 degree reversal of your thinking. It's okay
for your wife to enjoy her sex and have orgasms, but _her_ orgasms aren't
what's going to get her pregnant. Trying to get used to these strange ideas
I'm suggesting would help you conceive.
I suggest engaging in whatever sexual practices are most stimulating to
_you_, the male partner. During foreplay and intercourse the testes produce
semen, so, if you approach things the right way, you might find that you can
come more quickly, more often, and more voluminously than you'd imagined.
And note that you don't have to ejaculate in order for your partner to
conceive! Many unwanted pregnancies happen with mere penetration, because
the urethra always contains live semen.
If you do ejaculate there are one of two things you can do to help matters.
Have sex any way you like, but when you come, you can have your wife
standing with her palms on the floor. This position is most conducive to
conception. If you're not comfortable with rear penetration then,
immediately after you come, have your wife stand on her head. Yes, I know it
feels better to cuddle and enjoy the post-orgasm glow, but remember you're
trying to achieve this evil thing called pregnancy, so certain things that
our cultural dogma associates with sex have to take a back seat.
If you enjoy oral sex your wife can transfer semen from her mouth to her
vagina. If you enjoy anal then, before doing the reverse switcheroo from
anus to vagina (which is something you should _never_ do if the sex is for
fun), you should wash the outside of your penis with antibacterial soap to
prevent infection. You can also wear a lambskin condom for anal and remove
it prior to vaginal penetration, but take care not to touch the condom's
outer surface with your bare hand. I don't recommend transferring semen from
the rectum to the vagina because there's no way to clean it. Yeast
infections are a bitch, but E. Coli vaginal infections are horrible and
possibly fatal.
If you enjoy frottage (such as titfucking) you can safely transfer semen
from your wife's skin to her vagina, but I'd recommend that she bathe first.
You should ideally plan for a 24- to 48-hour session where you do nothing
all day but fuck, eat, and sleep. You won't be able to sustain or even
achieve an erection at all times, but don't feel pressured to "perform." The
point, strange as it might seem, is not to sexually satisfy a demanding
woman but for her to get _pregnant_. If your cock is unresponsive during
foreplay or your erection goes away during intercourse, treat it like a
_practical problem_ rather than a reflection of your potence, her
attractiveness, or the level of your love for each other.
If your wife starts to get frustrated have her bathe and then sit on the lid
of the toilet and eat her out until she comes. Freshly washed pussy is
really yummy!
Hope this helps.
Miki
better luck next time 
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