"Quiet Neighbor" <private@spamless.net> wrote in message
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> Indeed, dealing with a trans-gender is a disturbing idea. I couldn't be
> clear on whether I was violating being straight or not.
It sounds as if you think "dealing with" means "being sexually involved
with." I must be wrong because I have too much respect for you to believe
that you really think that. And even if the thought of trannies is the only
thing that makes your mind work that way, I don't blame you and think you're
not alone. It's just a natural reaction. But the first step is to get past
that reaction--which is something many trannies themselves have trouble
with. But, like you and me, they are human beings with many sides to them.
It just happens that one side of them hogs most of our--and
their--attention.
If you have to spend a lot of time getting along with a tranny at work or
home, call up the local sex-change clinic, briefly explain what's happening,
and ask if they can pass your name and phone number along to someone who
knows about these things and would agree to meet and chat with you in their
private time. At the very least they'll give you the phone number of a
volunteer centre. It's important to do that if you have to be around a
tranny because dealing with trannies is tough. For example, it's politically
incorrect to ever refer to a tranny as "he" or "she." You have to use their
name or initials in place of the pronoun. That's awkward and tough to learn,
especially when you need to speak that way only *some* of the time.
>
> If I could get past that, there would be obvious advantages. -no concern
> about pregnancy -and, since they started as male, they might be a
> nympho -sort of, maybe
This is contradicted by research. Trannies see themselves as being of the
opposite sex, so women in male bodies and men in female bodies. The former
tend to be deeply unhappy that they will never have ovaries and a uterus
like a woman born female does, and bearing a child is also something they
pine for. As for nympho, their artificial vagina is not sensitive and their
"clit" is a relocated piece of intestine. Almost all find their first sex
act disappointing if not crushing.
The men in female bodies have plastic nuts in grafted skin sacs and their
clit has been enlarged with hormone injections so it looks roughly like a
dick and can have the urethra run through it to let them pee standing up
(which is a big deal to them). I've never heard of one having a "cock" big
enough to achieve proper vaginal penetration, which is a big source of
bother to them because many *do* find girlfriends. (The women in men's
bodies rarely find boyfriends.) With penile transplants now having gotten
going that might change.
>
> I was told once that trans-genders tend to get involved with other (same
> kind) trans-genders, which makes no sense from a plumbing standpoint.
They get involved with other trannies because other trannies *understand*
them.
Miki
This girl at work 
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