Moving in with my girlfriend again

We decided to start living together again.

I will stop the rent of my appartment and move in with my
girlfriend in Alkmaar. That means moving to another city.

Furthermore we plan to get married as soon as possible
because my girlfriend does some suicide attempts because
she is shizoaffective every now and then and the house
of my girlfriend will be on both names when we marry
that means I will not run the risk of having no roof above
my head when she accidently successfully does suicide.

Berty

Adamski_Rasputin wrote:
> We decided to start living together again.
>
> I will stop the rent of my appartment and move in with my
> girlfriend in Alkmaar. That means moving to another city.
>
> Furthermore we plan to get married as soon as possible
> because my girlfriend does some suicide attempts because
> she is shizoaffective every now and then and the house
> of my girlfriend will be on both names when we marry
> that means I will not run the risk of having no roof above
> my head when she accidently successfully does suicide.
>
> Berty

Berty, be careful, and remember there's only so much you can do. You
can however do a lot. If she's too suicidal for you to bring her out of
it, and talk her through it, get her some help by taking her to the
hospital. You can call her everyday and make sure she's ok.

Watch out for codependency. I think you really have to love yourself
before you can love others.

Best wishes with your marriage.


George

After the move in, I suggest you guys get a pet together. Pets can be
a big help with living day to day.

On Feb 20, 12:28 pm, Adamski_Rasputin <adamskiraspu...@yahoo.com>
wrote:
> We decided to start living together again.
>
> I will stop the rent of my appartment and move in with my
> girlfriend in Alkmaar. That means moving to another city.
>
> Furthermore we plan to get married as soon as possible
> because my girlfriend does some suicide attempts because
> she is shizoaffective every now and then and the house
> of my girlfriend will be on both names when we marry
> that means I will not run the risk of having no roof above
> my head when she accidently successfully does suicide.
>
> Berty


I hope all goes well for you. Good luck. You sound like you are happy
about it.

Good luck on the move, Berty and congratulations about getting married.

Sometimes I think of moving out of the desert. I'm tired of this dust
bowl and the traffic.

penguin