Update on my situation.

I'm definitely coming home to the UK. I have just resigned, I have to
work my notice. My wife does not want to go to a support group.
However this is not permanent. This is a trial separation. Go to the
UK for at least 6 months to a year. Find out where my heart lies.

On a mental note. I feel strangely liberated.

Also me and my wife are still in love. I just need some cave time by
the looks of it to sort my head out. Work out where I should be. Do I
want and can I care for a family. It's been a very emotional decision
to make for both me and her.

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On 22 jul, 10:50, ChrisC <chrisp...@googlemail.com> wrote:
> I'm definitely coming home to the UK. I have just resigned, I have to
> work my notice. My wife does not want to go to a support group.
> However this is not permanent. This is a trial separation. Go to the
> UK for at least 6 months to a year. Find out where my heart lies.
>
> On a mental note. I feel strangely liberated.
>
> Also me and my wife are still in love. I just need some cave time by
> the looks of it to sort my head out. Work out where I should be. Do I
> want and can I care for a family. It's been a very emotional decision
> to make for both me and her.

At least in the UK you don't have to work and you can go
on disability, that would be a change.
In SA it is work or go under.

Berty

Btw Gelly, SA is South Africa

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On Jul 22, 3:30*pm, Adamski_Rasputin wrote:
>
> At least in the UK you don't have to work and you can go
> on disability, that would be a change.
> In SA it is work or go under.
>
> Berty
>
> Btw Gelly, SA is South Africa

Once the kaffirs took over Suid Afrika, it all went down hill!:-
( It's very violent in SA now, rapin' and murderin'. I wouldn't
recommend going to SA.
Rhodesia used to be the Breadbasket of Afrika, but now that murderous
monkey Mugabe is killing the people.

<chessucat shakes his head>

On 22 jul, 22:45, chessucat <chessu...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> On Jul 22, 3:30*pm, Adamski_Rasputin wrote:
>
>
>
> > At least in the UK you don't have to work and you can go
> > on disability, that would be a change.
> > In SA it is work or go under.
>
> > Berty
>
> > Btw Gelly, SA is South Africa
>
> Once the kaffirs took over Suid Afrika, it all went down hill!:-
> ( *It's very violent in SA now, rapin' and murderin'. *I wouldn't
> recommend going to SA.
> Rhodesia used to be the Breadbasket of Afrika, but now that murderous
> monkey Mugabe is killing the people.
>
> <chessucat shakes his head>

I was once told there were 400 kidnaps in Johannesburg every month
and that was in 2001, imagine what a mess it is in 2008.
SA is a violent place, you are very right Chessucat.

Berty

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On Jul 23, 4:44*am, Adamski_Rasputin schreibe:
>
> I was once told there were 400 kidnaps in Johannesburg every month
> and that was in 2001, imagine what a mess it is in 2008.
> SA is a violent place, you are very right Chessucat.
>
> Berty

Were you in SA around 1982?

We use to shop at the hypermarket and they would sell non-refrigerated
milk in boxes. It was ultra-high heated, but not homogenised so the
when we put the box of milk in the refrigerator the cream would rise
to the top. They use to sell this instant curry mix, you just added
some mince meat and cook some white rice with it. Then chop up some
veggies and fruits for topping or add a little Mrs. Ball's Chutney to
it. Baie goed!

<chessucat twitches>

On 23 jul, 17:34, chessucat <chessu...@gmail.com> wrote:
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> On Jul 23, 4:44*am, Adamski_Rasputin schreibe:
>
>
>
> > I was once told there were 400 kidnaps in Johannesburg every month
> > and that was in 2001, imagine what a mess it is in 2008.
> > SA is a violent place, you are very right Chessucat.
>
> > Berty
>
> Were you in SA around 1982?
>
> We use to shop at the hypermarket and they would sell non-refrigerated
> milk in boxes. *It was ultra-high heated, but not homogenised so the
> when we put the box of milk in the refrigerator the cream would rise
> to the top. *They use to sell this instant curry mix, you just added
> some mince meat and cook some white rice with it. *Then chop up some
> veggies *and fruits for topping or add a little Mrs. Ball's Chutney to
> it. *Baie goed!
>
> <chessucat twitches>

No I was in SA in 2000 till 2001, only visits mainly because I had
an internet relationship with a girl in Pretoria.

Baie dankie

Berty