The Mind Games of Anna Kubit - 1.0
For your benefit this information has been collected and compiled from both myself
and several other men who have dated Anna Kubit. It is congruent across the board
from each man's detailed account of his experiences with her.
Anna Kubit is by no means the only woman to play these games, but she is in a very
tiny minority of women (about 1%) who will play *all* of these games in the course of
a several week dating period.
Unfortunately, Anna Kubit (and similar) is a woman who dates for the purposes of
exerting power, ego boosts and manipulation, rather than dating for the wonderful
experience of finding out about another human being and the many natural and
pleasurable experiences that can follow.
Out of several men, we have identified 14 distinct, manipulative dating
characteristics of Anna Kubit (and similar). We hope this will help keep your
psychological and/or physical welfare intact if you should ever run across this
woman, or one like her.
The Games:
1 - Shallow initial contact: She'll come on to you, flirt on the phone or in person,
even act sexually suggestive with absolutely no intention whatsoever of getting
involved on a serious level.
What's her mind game?: She wants to get a rise out of you to assure herself that
she's attractive to you and other men. It's an ego boost, at your expense.
2 - The quadruple date: Upon meeting at an agreed upon location for a date, you
discover she has taken the liberty of inviting one or two of her male friends,
without your knowledge.
What's her mind game?: This is another bid for power. It's a matter of making you
jump through hoops, presenting you with the unexpected and then observing your
reaction. She just wants to reassure herself that she can control you and other men
with her sexuality.
3 - Hard to get: She turns down your plans for a date or doesn't return your call,
even if she's interested in going out with you.
What's her mind game?: Usually this is simply a power play and what she wants is for
you to chase her, to determine how desperate you are to be with her. If you bite,
then she knows she's totally in control of the relationship and you'll forever jump
to the crack of her whip.
4 - Broken dates: She breaks your date at the last minute, changes the time, changes
the venue, or perhaps doesn't show up at all.
What's her mind game? She knows that the one being pursued controls the course of the
relationship and she wants to ensure that you dance to her tune early on. Many women
play this game to see how desperate a man is. If you roll over and puppy-dog it at
this point, you might as well just put a collar around your neck.
5 - Unusual or inappropriate requests: Just before meeting for a date, she'll specify
what type of clothes you should wear, how you should groom (like dressing a Ken
Doll), and will invite her friends on your date that originally was meant for only
you and her.
What's her mind game? Besides being downright rude, she's trying to figure out how
much she can get away with and wants to gauge your reactions. She wants to be the one
calling the shots; she wants you to run after her and have you wonder if she's really
interested in you. Furthermore, if she makes you wait for her, she sends a clear
signal that she values her time more than she does yours. She wants also to see how
well you can handle and impress her friends, as she doesn't have the constitution to
judge for herself what she finds acceptably attractive. Therefore she needs the
"social proof" of friends to help her make the decision.
6 - Expensive dates: After the simple coffee phase is over, she wants to go to the
most expensive restaurant, the most expensive adventures. The most exclusive club,
the hottest play and expects you to fund the whole thing.
What's her mind game? She's aware that you know that if you don't fork over the cash,
you won't have a prayer. To make matters worse, she might even do this if she has
unequivocally no intention of developing any type of relationship with you
whatsoever. Your credit card is going to be smoking.
7 - Physical Tease: She does everything to set a romantic, sexual setting, invites
you to her house, gets you hot and bothered and then backs off.
What's her mind game? This is a perfect example of complete manipulation and
exultation of her sexual power over you, plain and simple. She might also play this
game to extract more cash, dates, adventure from you (see previous point).
8 - Serial flirt: She flirts with other men in front of you.
What's her mind game?: What she's doing is testing to see how interested you are and
underscoring the fact that she's sexually desirable to other men (so you'd better toe
the line).
9 - Selfish ways: She acts any way she pleases to see if you'll tolerate her bad
behavior or pushes you around to see if you'll stand up to her.
What's her mind game?: She's testing to see "how much of a man" you are (how much
control she has over you), as well as arming herself with ammunition for future
manipulations, in case you get mad and fly into a rage.
10 - Mind reading: This is a good one. She expects you to read her mind. This
includes but is not limited to: her sexual desires, what questions you're supposed to
ask or not ask, have a perfect understanding of what her "life goals" are, etc.
What's her mind game?: You are somehow supposed to magically guess exactly what
she's thinking, what she wants and how she wants it without her ever having to say a
word or elaborate on anything. When, naturally, you fail to "just know," she ruins
the entire interaction, usually by saying something like, "the chemistry just isn't
there."
11 - Comparison to others: She compares you to some image she has of some ideal guy.
What's her mind game?: She's always looking to feather her nests or "better-deal"
you. If she finds a better deal, she'll toss you aside and move on to her next
victim... uh, boyfriend.
12 - Crazy antics: She makes you jump through hoops in order to "enjoy the company of
her presence."
What's her mind game?: She wants to know just how much crap you'll put up with.
13 - Inconsistent wants: She indulges in contradictory thinking. She wants a
meathead-on-steroids type manly man who takes charge, but who has metrosexual traits
and can love watching romantic comedies.
What's her mind game?: She tells you that she wants you to show more emotion, but
when you do, she brands you as "weak." This is yet another example of her keeping the
upper hand in the relationship, by making you feel like she can be the one dumping
you if you're not exactly what she wants.
14 - Climb the social ladder: You meet her for a few initial dates on which she'll
ask you about your connections, who you know, what you know, etc.
What's her mind game?: Her ultimate goal is to climb the social ladder, and you are
only a pawn on her chess board where each square has a hidden trap door. Give her
something she can use, that will boost her a few rungs up the latter, and you may be
around for a while. Fall through a trap door and you'll immediately be dismissed with
the excuse, " I just didn't feel the chemistry."
NEW DEVELOPMENTS:
A New Web Page:
We are soon to work on a web page that will allow you to report this kind of
unethical or illegal behavior to the proper authorities. We are also working on the
initiation of a national online-dating database server where women (or men) of this
type may be easily reported and archived so that other people, through a simple
search, will be able to know who they are before getting involved with them.
We will also be launching a national education campaign in order to help others avoid
this happening to them. We will also be working on getting our government to
strengthen unethical Deceit and Pretense laws.
http://www.lectlaw.com/def/d095.htm http://www.lectlaw.com/def/f101.htm http://www.lectlaw.com/def/f079.htm http://www.womenmanipulatemen.com/ <-- this one is good
HIV+
When people ask me about this, my only answer is that I don't know if Anna Kubit had
the HIV only a few months before we met, or years. It could be either and I will
probably never know for sure. But the important thing is that it never happens to
anyone else.
WHAT IT'S ALL about
:
I am making this post to let people know to be VERY careful when meeting people on
the internet and also warn them about this Anna Kubit specifically. Apparently she
has done this before and may still be doing it. I also found out later that she is
now claiming to be a "dating coach" and that I was just one of her many personal
experiments out of dozens of men. I met this crazy girl (I'm sure there are more) and
she gave me H.I.V. Don't ruin your life over a fling on the internet. Please be
careful!
Quotes from Anna Kubit:
"In my opinion we all have some sociopathic tendencies. Different people to different
degrees. You can argue any point in sooo many directions!!"
"This is why I stay home most of the time - as I HATE putting up with people like
you. And yes, I am angry - frankly I'm furious that people like you exist"
"I want to go to Florida and make a killing on the backs of as many men as possible."
"I actually saw the movie Basic Instinct and I happen to like Catherine [Tramell]"
(note: Catherine Tramell is the character of a psychopathic murderer)
"the NLP and psychology that I read and study can be used to manipulate people"
"You people on here all make me sick"
"Thank you all you interested folks in generating almost 200 hits to my site in the
one week that this topic has been in Google Groups. It should put me higher in the
search engines and help me with my [manipulative] purposes."
Please beware of this woman:
NAME: ......... Anna Kubit
LOCATION: ... Naples, Florida
DOB: .......... Jan. 23, 1984
AGE: .......... 22
HAIR: ......... BRN.
EYES: ......... BRN.
Match.com Name: AnnaTheFireball
(her main hunting ground is
www.Match.com)
Be warned: she is a game player extraordinaire
Associated websites:
http://annakubit.com http://www.konsultar.com http://www.datingconsulting.com http://konsultar.zaadz.com
(Note: most of these websites are known by many people to be scams, and
Anna Kubit a con artist. She's comes across as VERY charismatic and believable!
Apparently she tries to entice anyone with money to invest in her "great real estate
deals," which ultimately turn out to be scams to defraud honest people of their
money. In her once accessible Match.com profile, she even said flat out that if
someone had $$$$, she knew what to do with it)
Places Anna Kubit Frequents:
- Yabbas ...... Fifth Ave., Naples
- Divas ........ Fifth Ave., Naples
- Any Starbucks Coffee house
- Cafe Roma ... US 41 & Pine Ridge Rd, behind CVS Pharmacy, Naples
- Most any type of beach clubs or restaurants
Thank you for your attention.
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"When responding to posts in newsgroups, where there's anonymity, I think name
calling and insults become something of an "ulterior personality"... for the weak, it
is something of a mask to put on, like some do for Halloween. It allows people a
certain freedom of existence that they don't normally find in their daily 'real'
lives. It is refreshing to expunge emotion toward others and respond to them in
hostile ways; ways in which people know they would never do to someone's face. It's
simply something out of the normal experience of mundane life. Aah...to get to be
the bully for once, kicking the virtual sand in other people's faces; perhaps an
escape of a real life where the reverse is more accurately the truth."
-Tooly
Dating: The Mind Games of Anna Kubit 
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