Hi Steve,
I would like to say first that I don't want to discuss the AIDS issue with you because
that is something I have no facts on and can't verify. I make no conclusions, but if
people can use forged medical documents in a court of law to fool a judge, they can
certainly do it on the internet. What I do want to tell you is that I believe much of your
story about Ms. Kubit. Not only do I live in Naples but also have a friend who is a mutual
acquaintance of Ms. Kubit and it is because of this that I know much of the real story
regarding her {I can discuss this more with you in private Email if you wish} and I
wouldn't be making this post if I didn't fully believe in what I'm saying. What you have
to realize, Steve, is that although your attempts at exposing her are commendable, you're
going to have a tough time because I don't know if you know what you're facing.
We're talking about a woman who works out and does everything possible to increase her
attractiveness to the opposite sex. When it comes to this fact of human psychology, you
are going to have men who will automatically enter the "instinctive protector" mode. They
see a woman who is attractive and they feel and inherent urge to blindly play the part of
her hero based solely on her looks alone and despite the contradicting facts. You can't
really blame men for this, it's just automatic and they will give her a presumption of
complete innocence based on looks alone. Do you think they would feel the same about her
or believe her if she were a 300lb woman with spaghetti string hair and more warts on her
than a load full of toads?
You yourself have said and recognized that Ms. Kubit has sociopathic tendencies. If you
know that then you should also know that sociopaths incontestably believe their own
deceptions and take the necessary actions, no matter how bold or brazen, to stay
consistent with those deceptions, such as writing an Ebook. It's much like a serial killer
entering a police station and, the police being unaware of whom he really is, offering his
services in helping to catch the serial killer {himself}. Ms. Kubit's Ebook, the "Do's and
Don't of Online Dating" is really a book written about herself, about her *own* short
comings and deceptiveness in the dating arena. Perception is reality, and if this is Ms.
Kubit's perception of things and the "dangers" therein, then somehow, somewhere alone the
line, this is the reality she has created for herself.
Because of your less-than-flattering posts regarding Ms. Kubit, this is probably the first
time in her life that she has had to face any real negative PR at this level. In light of
this, she will do whatever it takes to stay consistent with the image she holds of herself
as being a "good person." She may indeed have good qualities, but when those qualities are
employed within the context of an overall deceptiveness, which I just happen to know Ms.
Kubit does, then those qualities lose their meaning and become quite inappropriate.
Right now I'm rather busy since I've been away for a while. And although your strategy of
using news groups may not have been the most effective way to deal with this issue, I
believe in your cause and I understand what you're trying to do and why you're trying to
do it based on both my knowledge of Ms. Kubit as well as the things you have stated about
her in your postings which align almost perfectly with what I know of her.
I can tell from your writings that this is obviously not the only concern or obstacle in
your life. Just like the rest of us, you still have family, friends, a job, romantic
involvements, responsibilities, a social life, and many other things to deal with just as
we all do.
Knowing what I do of this, I would like to help. Email me if you wish. Best of luck to you
whatever you decide.
Sandra

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